The Christ Driven Woman Podcast

The Habits That Determine Your Identity | Ep. 014

Have you ever struggled with changing your habitual patterns of thinking? On today’s episode of The Christ-Driven Woman, Charisse reminds listeners that our habitual negative thoughts have the power to determine our identity. If we aren’t careful, we can easily allow other beliefs get in the way of what God has already spoken over us. Charisse encourages women to focus on the following if we wish to undo destructive patterns of thinking:
 
It is the negative thought that becomes the habit that then becomes the belief
Our negative beliefs about ourselves actually can become true because we are already acting as if they are true
In order to bring your true identity back to light, you must change your pattern of thinking so that you can change the pattern in your habits
You have to do something different to get something different -- thus, you also have to think something different to keep something different
If we let the enemy replace the truth of who God says we are with what the world says is important (e.g. motherhood, a career, relationship status, etc.), we will lose ourselves
 
What habitual thought have you internalized that doesn’t align with what God says about you? It isn’t an easy task to retrain your brain with truth, but you must do the work if you want to get closer to your heavenly Father and closer to your true identity. Before you can know WHO you are, you must become familiar with WHOSE you are, and He is ready to show you.
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Fearfully & Wonderfully Made with Guest Jessica Terenyi | Ep. 013

In today’s episode of The Christ-Driven Woman, Charisse is joined by guest Jessica Terenyi. Jessica is a professional organizer and life coach, and is owner and CEO of JK Organizing. She joins Charisse to discuss her story of turning her unique skills into a profitable business, and gives insight for women who may find themselves overly concerned with the cleanliness and organization of their lives. Charisse and Jessica’s conversation reminds listeners that: 
 
The need for cleanliness and organization can come from a deeper desire for perfection and reaching unrealistic expectations
There is beauty even in the chaotic and disorganized
We must not let our desire for perfection prevent or overshadow the memories we make with loved ones amidst the “mess”
It is important to find the root of perfectionistic behaviors and attack the lie or the false identity at the source 
 
Jessica’s story reminds us of the importance of both utilizing our God-given gifts and keeping our perfectionism in check. The constant striving toward complete cleanliness is one that many mothers, daughters, and female entrepreneurs know all too well. And while Jessica herself  believes in the importance of organization, we must be able to appreciate the beauty in the mess and realize that we were not created to reach perfection—we are fearfully and wonderfully made, even when we forget to unload the dishwasher.
 
To connect with Jessica Terenyi and find out more about her work, check out:
 
Linktree
https://linktr.ee/jkorganizingllc
 
JK Organizing
https://www.organizinghomesandlives.com/
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When Your Answer Doesn't Look Like What You Think It "Should" | Ep. 012

Today I just get really REAL about how much I don’t like the fact that we have “trials of many kinds,” we are to consider pure joy.  James 1:2-4 has always made me nervous growing up, as has many verses that talk about going through trouble.  I thought if I read it or someone talked about it, that meant something bad was going to happen. I couldn’t even TOUCH the pages in the book of JOB.  My identity was in fear not in who God created me to be.  
 
When we KNOW OUR TRUE IDENTITY it really won’t matter what happens.  We can have joy in chaos as the song goes.  We can start to see beyond ourselves and realize that because God loves us so much we can trust Him even when the answer we are praying for doesn’t look like what we think it “should,” or when the hang-time between the leap of faith and the landing takes longer than we like.  We can KNOW “that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose.”  Romans 8:28
 
When we truly know the root of our identity is in Christ we can have peace. 
 
That means getting real with ourselves and asking the questions: 
Am I praying with complete trust for the outcome or only seeing what I want?
Am I open to however God wants to answer this prayer?
Does it change who God is if the answer isn’t what I thought it would be?
How will I respond to God when I don’t understand the answer to my prayers? 
Where is my identity truly found?
 
 
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When the Leap of Faith Doesn’t Land When You Think it Will | Ep. 011

What happens when you take a leap of faith, but you don’t end up where you expected? In today’s episode of The Christ-Driven Woman, Charisse continues her discussion of “quantum leaps,” and offers encouragement to those of us who have taken a leap, but don’t feel as if we’ve landed in the promise just yet. It’s easy to become discouraged when we take a risk or pursue change, especially when we find ourselves in a period of “hang time,” waiting for the fruit to show itself. If you find yourself in this situation now or in the future, Charisse gives the following advice:
 
The patience that is required in the waiting is often harder than the strength it takes to make the first step
The growth that is taking shape in the “hang time” is what you will need to sustain the promise that God has prepared you for
A period of waiting can often feel isolated and lonely, but remember that God is always walking alongside you — and you are not the only person feeling that way
If the promise at the end of your leap of faith isn't your idea of “good,” return to the Lord and ask for clarity and direction
 
For some of us, if we knew how long it would take to get to our promised land, we wouldn’t ever want to let go of the edge. If you are experiencing a major life change or are contemplating taking a quantum leap, remember that if God has asked you to take that first step, He will be with you through it.
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How to Create a QUANTUM LEAP | Ep. 010

Have you ever felt yourself on the verge of experiencing tremendous personal growth? Are you at a point in your life where you hear God calling you to grow? In today’s episode of The Christ-Driven Woman, Charisse discusses the concept of a “quantum leap,” which can be described as an astronomical amount of growth that can sometimes happen suddenly, but not always. Oftentimes, when we are pursuing growth in an area of our lives, we expect the change to happen immediately. And yet, even the definition of a quantum leap tells us that this change doesn’t always occur instantaneously. Charisse encourages listeners to seek the guidance of the Lord before pursuing a quantum leap, and reminds us of the following:
 
We must listen to the calling of God, because if the quantum leap that we hope for is not in line with God’s plans for us, our efforts will be fruitless
You will attain the desired success in your quantum leap when it adheres to God’s timing and glorifies Him in the process
When we choose to take the leap, we must also make the decision to stay in that motivated mindset, even when the results haven’t happened yet
Always remain patient in what God is calling you towards — it is often the patience that is the hardest part
 
Have you yet asked God about the direction that He wants to take you? If you are experiencing stagnant growth and want to glorify the Lord in your life, take some time to pray and listen for His calling. We as daughters of the King are called to be an example of God’s love, and our lives are meant to give others the desire to love God as well. When you know that the Lord has said “Yes” to your quantum leap, stay consistent and patient, regardless of seeing immediate results. In due time, you will experience the growth that God wants for you, and He will be magnified in the process.  Galatians 6:9-10 tells us exactly that.  Paul reminds us in that passage to not grow weary of doing good and at the right time we will reap a harvest if we don’t give up. 
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IDENTITY: In the Hands of the Potter with Guest Lisa Drennon | Ep. 009

In today’s episode of The Christ-Driven Woman, Charisse is joined by guest Lisa Drennon, a wealth-activator and founder of “I Date Money.” Lisa strongly believes that “It doesn’t matter how much money you have, it’s what you do with it,” and she has the goal of teaching women to fall head over heels in love with money. But what does she mean by this? Doesn’t the Bible tell us that the love of money is the root of all evil? Charisse and Lisa address this question and discuss their individual “money identities,” advising listeners of the following:
Putting anything above God—which includes money, our careers, and even our families—is what becomes wrong
We need money to survive, and money in the hands of good people can do amazing things
When you aren’t in a scarcity-mindset with your finances, you are better able to help and support others
We have the ability to love money in a way that is freeing, joyful, and helpful—without making money an idol
There are many women today who may experience fear when it comes to making and spending money, which is in turn wreaking havoc on their confidence and sense of identity, and blocking them from getting to the next stage in their business. By following Lisa’s model and sitting down and “dating money,” you will be better able to track your assets and take accountability of your finances, creating a stable and “loving” money identity. Deuteronomy 8:18 tells us that the Lord has given us the ability to gain wealth, and Charisse and Lisa remind us that it is our responsibility to use our money to bless others and glorify God. Yet in order to use our finances to the benefit of the Kingdom, we must first learn how to establish a responsible, resourceful and healthy relationship with them.
 
 
To connect with Lisa Drennon and find out more about her work, check out:
I Date Money | Wealth Activation
https://www.idatemoney.com/
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How Your Identity Affects Your Sales | Ep. 008

As always, Charisse is focused on your identity in Christ.  Today she talks about it in terms of how you sell your service or product. 
Many times we make it harder than it needs to be simply because we are believing thoughts that are not true.  
She gives the example of how we tell people about our favorite restaurant.  We never think about the fact that we are really selling it.  We don’t feel bad or question sharing that amazing place to eat or think, I hope they don’t think I’m being too pushy.
Charisse also explains how a “sales mentality” is being more concerned about yourself and what others will think rather than about serving and providing the solution for someone who is praying for their problem to be solved.
No one is perfect but we are striving to get more aligned on a daily basis. Charisse reminds us how our identity affects everything in our lives, including how we approach selling. 
What thoughts do you have when you think about selling? Or when you are in a sales conversation?  Are they serving you?  Are they hindering you?  Are those thoughts in alignment with who God says you are? 
The more we dig into our relationship with God and find those thoughts that are not from him, the better we can serve our Dream Client. 
Think of 1 thought that is not serving you when it comes to sales.  Ask yourself, would God be saying this to me? 
Find scriptures that disprove that thought that is not from him. Find scripture that reminds you of the truth.
Charisse shares a “cheat” she uses to find scriptures quickly and easily that will allow you to anchor yourself to your identity in Christ! 
Serving the way God created us to, with the gift he gave us, requires courage, boldness, and belief. That is the only way we will ever reach the fullest capacity for which he made us. 
 
 
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What is Your "Money Identity?" | Ep. 007

What kinds of things come to mind when you think about money? Do you begin to feel anxious, fearful, or even envious? In today’s episode, Charisse speaks on “money identity,” and shares her own experience of fear and anxiety when it came to making money. Your money identity is simply how you perceive and react to money without even realizing it. It is essential to understand your own perception of money, whether you are a business owner, a corporate employee, a mother, or all of the above. Charisse reminds us of the following:
Our internalized identities affect all areas of our lives, including our management of money
God gave us the ability to create wealth, but when our money identity is one of scarcity, lack, and fear, we quickly establish an unhealthy relationship with the money we make
If your money identity is not aligned with Christ and only dependent on yourself, you will get to a point in your business where you will hit a wall and begin to self-sabotage
When we are holding onto false identities, it limits our ability to walk closer to God and fully live in royalty as daughters of the King
If you are ready to improve your relationship with money, take some time to quiet down and ask the Lord, “What is my identity with money?” It is then that you can ask Him, “Where did that identity start?,” and begin to undo unhealthy patterns that are preventing you from moving to the next level in your business, increasing your income, or using your money in a way that allows you peace and glorifies God.
 
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Why Your IDENTITY Will Make or Break Your Success | Ep. 006

Have you ever believed a lie about your identity, despite knowing what God really says about you? Has negative self-talk ever steered you away from an area in which God was calling you? In today’s episode of The Christ-Driven Woman, Charisse brings us back to the foundation of how we grow, and reminds listeners that we must attack the enemy’s lies with Godly truth. Your identity dictates your perception, which then flows into every area of your life. But just as a negative or false self-identity can harm your personal life and business pursuits, an identity rooted in God can be a catalyst for things you never thought possible.
 
But if you don’t know what it means to be fully walking in the identity that God gave you, how do you know where to start? To answer this, Charisse shares what she believes to be the four most important areas of growth and belief in identity and business. 
 
What you believe about God
What you believe about yourself
What you believe about your job or offer
What you believe about your dream client and those you’re called to serve
 
These four essential tenets will make or break your success in your personal and professional life, because the answers to them all stem from your perception of your identity. Charisse reminds us that you will never grow past what you believe you can achieve, but the good news is, the only barrier is your own self doubt. It isn’t just about being a positive person, but about knowing why you can be positive: because you have a loving Father who sees you, calls you by name, and gives you everything you need to achieve BIG! 
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IDENTITY By Divine Design with Guest Stacey Prinzing | Ep. 005

In today’s episode of The Christ-Driven Woman, Charisse is joined by guest Stacey Prinzing Townley. Stacey is a speaker and course-creator who inspires women to connect with their Divine Design so they are able to align their daily decisions with their God-given purpose and create a living legacy. She shares her story of discovering her divinely created identity, and reminds listeners of the following truths:
When you find yourself being overworked and constantly striving, and you are being met with chaos and confusion, then you may not be living into the identity that God has for you.
You will experience peace and ease when you are walking in step with your Divine Design.
Your life is God’s story to write, so step closer to Christ, hand over the pen, and let Him take over.
The enemy is going to use your own negative thoughts to derail you from your divine purpose, so use Scripture to remind yourself of your worth as a child of God.
If you find yourself confused about your own Divine Design, Stacey and Charisse encourage you to focus first on aligning your choices and decisions with ones that honor Christ. Take a close look at your life and ask yourself: “Are the choices I’m making in alignment with the legacy that God has placed on my heart?” When we strive towards a goal or an identity that is not rooted in God’s design, we will only find ourselves exhausted. Instead, we must listen and look out for God’s unique direction for us, which will provide peace in place of confusion. 
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Stacey Prinzing Townley - Facebook
https://www.facebook.com/stacey.prinzingtownley/
 
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